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Family HistoryFamily History - Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley


Key:1.“+” before a child’s name indicates the child has their own entry in the next generation.
 2.“born xxxx” indicates the child is under 18 years of age so the birth date is not shown.
This family history features Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley and 11 of his descendants down to the fourth generation.


First Generation
1. Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley,1 born 10 September 1923 (parents not determined);1 died 5 February 1964.1 Frank married, December 1961, Harriet Jane Truland8 (born 10 September 1922 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey, the daughter of Nira Melbourne Truland and Harriet C. Leonard;2, 3, 4, 5 Harriet died 7 September 1997 in Sun City, Hillsborough County, Florida3, 6, 7). Frank and Harriet are buried in Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Arlington County, Virginia.1, 6

Frank is remembered as “one of the finest men ever to have walked on this Earth.” He was killed in a car accident. He had started adoption proceedings for all three of his wife Harriet’s children before he died. The children were eventually adopted and thereafter carried the Medley surname.8

The following biographical sketch is compiled from both published and family sources.2, 8

Harriet was born in Newark, New Jersey, the youngest of four children of Nira and Harriet (Leonard) Truland. As a child, Harriet was an avid swimmer, and she used to swim in fishing ponds. Her mother told her not to swim in a fishing hole because it was dangerous, but Harriet did it anyway. One day, diving into the murky water, she cut her knee on an old broken milk bottle. She left a bloody footprint all the way home, in the house on the hardwood floors, and up the stairs. She wrapped her knee in the only bandage she could find. When her mother discovered her, her mother didn’t know whether to kill Harriet or laugh when she saw her youngest child had wrapped her bloody knee with a sanitary pad! As a result of her injury, Harriet walked with a brace on her leg for years.

Family lore suggests that during her childhood, Harriet swam with her older brother John and his friend Johnny Weissmuller, Olympic champion (1924 and 1928) and actor (Tarzan and other roles). The friendship seems improbably given their age differences; Weissmuller (1904-1984) was 15 years older than John, and another three years older than Harriet. Harriet was said to have gone to the Olympic trials (year unknown) but was disqualified when it was learned that she had been paid to teach children how to swim. Perhaps she met Weissmuller at an Olympic trial. He was known to have attended the women’s 1928 Olympic tryouts that were held at Rockaway Playland Pool, New York.

Harriet attended several schools, including Barringer High School, in Newark, eventually graduating in 1940 from Verona High School. She married her high school sweetheart, Arthur J. Anderson. When Arthur joined the Navy early in World War II, Harriet entered college and also did her part to support the war effort by working in an ammunition plant. The work was described as like the cartoon where a person tests bullets on a conveyor belt by hitting them with a hammer. Her job was so dangerous that she was the only one working in a small testing room.

After Arthur was killed in action in the War, Harriet wanted to join the Navy, but the doctor took one look at her knee brace and said she couldn’t join. She decided to come back and try to enlist in the Marine Corps, having removed her brace. A different doctor that day had her jump on one leg and then the other, and she said if he had her jump one more time on her injured leg she would have fallen flat on her face. But her enlistment was approved, and she became a Marine.

In the years following, with successive marriages to George Gottschling, Edward May, and Frank Medley, Harriet lived in various places, including her native New Jersey, Alabama, Colorado, and eventually Florida, where she settled with her last husband, Earl Tilden Johnson. Her last job was executive secretary with a western food chain (her boss was killed in a plane crash). In retirement, Harriet enjoyed square dancing, tap, Hawaiian and aerobic dancing, and was on the local synchronized swim team.

While in the Marine Corps, Harriet befriended Lieutenant General Carol Mutter, the first woman in the Marine Corps to be promoted to the ranks of both major general and lieutenant general. Years later, General Mutter honored Harriet’s memory by conducting her funeral at Arlington National Cemetery.


+2i. Anne Kathleen Medley (born Gottschling), born 8 May 1947 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey. Married David Emil Nester.
+3ii. George William ‘Bill’ Medley (born Gottschling), born 3 May 1948 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey; died 30 October 2018 in Maryland. Married Doris Jo ‘Jodee’ Gazlay.
+4iii. Bonnie Anne Medley (born May), born 6 May 1957 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey. Married Steven K. Atkinson.

  1. Cemetery Record, Arlington National Cemetery (military website); Medley, Francis M., born: 10 September 1923; died: 5 February 1964; US Navy; Section 7, Grave 9905-B-LH.
  2. Women Marines Association, Volume 1, by Pamela Wood and Turner Publishing, 1992. Page 90, entry for Harriet (Truland) Anderson-Medley-Johnson. The entry provides brief vital and biographical information.
  3. Social Security Death Index (SSDI), Rootsweb (website). Johnson, Harriet T., no. 144-12-2981; born: 10 September 1922; died: 15 September 1997; last residence: Hillsborough [County], Florida.
  4. U.S. Federal Census, 1930, New Jersey, Passaic County, Clifton City, Enumeration District 16-91, Sheet No. 19B, family of Harriet Truland (39, New Jersey, widow); daughter Mary Truland (13, Pennsylvania); son John Truland (11, New Jersey); son Leonard Truland (9 7/12, New Jersey); daughter Harriet Truland (7 6/12, New Jersey).
  5. U.S. Federal Census, 1950, New Jersey, Essex County, Verona, E.D. 7-352, Sheet No. 5, George Gottschling, 29, New Jersey, salesman, auto parts, sales and service, retail automobile; wife Harriet J. Gottschling, 27, New Jersey; daughter Anne K. Gottschling, 2, New Jersey; son George W. Gottschling, 1, New Jersey; father Albert Gottschling, 76, Germany, Sep[erated], painter-paper hanger, interior decorator.
  6. Cemetery Record, Arlington National Cemetery (military website); Johnson, Harriet A., born: 10 September 1922; died: 7 September 1997; US Marine Corps; Court 4, Section MM, Column 4, Niche 2.
  7. Email from Helen Anderson Rickard Glass to Lee Gazlay, various dates in March 2014, providing information about her brother Arthur J. Anderson, his wife Harriet, and other relatives.
  8. Email from Bonnie Medley Atkinson to Lee Gazlay, various dates in November and December 2012.
Second Generation
2. Anne Kathleen Medley (born Gottschling)2 (Francis ‘Frank’1), born 8 May 1947 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey.1, 2 Anne married David Emil Nester (born 21 October 1944, parents not determined2). Their marriage ended in divorce in ca. 1971.3 Anne was adopted by Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley.

+5i. Cynthia Anne Nester, born August 1969. Married Lee Haskin Sjoberg.

3. George William ‘Bill’ Medley (born Gottschling)2 (Francis ‘Frank’1), born 3 May 1948 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey;1 died 30 October 2018 in Maryland.4 Bill married, 16 August 1969, Doris Jo ‘Jodee’ Gazlay (born 30 July 1948 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey, the daughter of Robert Bush Gazlay and Doris Margaret McGregor; Jodee died 7 July 2015 in Manahawkin, Ocean County, New Jersey5). Their marriage ended in divorce. Bill was adopted by Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley.

+6i. Timothy Craig Medley, born 24 November 1972 in Orange, Essex County, New Jersey. Married Jori Dionne Pearson.

4. Bonnie Anne Medley (born May)2 (Francis ‘Frank’1), born 6 May 1957 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey.3 Bonnie married, 16 June 1979, Steven K. Atkinson3 (born 12 November 1959, parents not determined3). Bonnie was adopted by Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley.

+7i. Diane Christine Atkinson, born 28 September 1981. Married Marco Bernard Albert.
+8ii. Timothy Craig Atkinson, born 18 April 1984. Married Amy Blickenstaff.

  1. U.S. Federal Census, 1950, New Jersey, Essex County, Verona, E.D. 7-352, Sheet No. 5, George Gottschling, 29, New Jersey, salesman, auto parts, sales and service, retail automobile; wife Harriet J. Gottschling, 27, New Jersey; daughter Anne K. Gottschling, 2, New Jersey; son George W. Gottschling, 1, New Jersey; father Albert Gottschling, 76, Germany, Sep[erated], painter-paper hanger, interior decorator.
  2. This is publicly viewable information found in various public information repositories, people finding websites, and/or social media.
  3. Email from Bonnie Medley Atkinson to Lee Gazlay, various dates in November and December 2012.
  4. Ancestry.com (website), Truland Family Tree, George William / Billy / Gotschling Medley, born: 3 May 1948 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey; died: 30 October 2018 in Maryland; spouse: Doris Jo / Jodee / Gazlay.
  5. Obituary, Atlantic City Press, Atlantic City, NJ, McWalters Doris ‘Jo’ (nee Gazlay), died 7 July 2015, age 66, of Manahawkin. The article provides brief biographical details and the names of her two sons, their wives, two brothers, and three grandchildren.
Third and Fourth Generations
5. Cynthia Anne Nester3 (Anne,2 Francis ‘Frank’1), born August 1969.1 Cynthia married, 7 August 1993, Lee Haskin Sjoberg1 (born June 1967, parents not determined1).

 9i. Hamilton Sjoberg.

6. Timothy Craig Medley3 (George ‘Bill’,2 Francis ‘Frank’1), born 24 November 1972 in Orange, Essex County, New Jersey. Timothy married, 25 April 1996 in Shelby, North Carolina, Jori Dionne Pearson (born 20 December 1973 in Shelby, North Carolina, the daughter of Gary Curtis Pearson and Bonnie Faye Morrow).

 10i. R. Fletcher Medley, born xxxx.
 11ii. I. Finlay Medley, born xxxx.

7. Diane Christine Atkinson3 (Bonnie,2 Francis ‘Frank’1), born 28 September 1981.2 Diane married Marco Bernard Albert2 (born ca. 1971, parents not determined1).

8. Timothy Craig Atkinson3 (Bonnie,2 Francis ‘Frank’1), born 18 April 1984.2 Timothy married Amy Blickenstaff (born 13 July 1982, parents not determined1).

 12i. Liam Conner Atkinson, born xxxx.

  1. This is publicly viewable information found in various public information repositories, people finding websites, and/or social media.
  2. Email from Bonnie Medley Atkinson to Lee Gazlay, various dates in November and December 2012.