Gazlay Family History
 

FamilyHarriet Jane Truland

Parents

FatherNira Melbourne Truland (22 March 1886 - 1929)
MotherHarriet C. Leonard (9 February 1889 - August 1971)

Personal Information

Record Created: 8 December 2012; Last Edited: 7 January 2024 
Person ID4546
NameHarriet Jane Truland
GenderFemale
Born 10 September 1922 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey1, 2, 3, 4
Married February 1942 in Elkton, Maryland to Arthur Junior Anderson5, 6
Married 1946 to George Gottschling5
Married to Edward Carl Matthews (born Edward Carl May)5
Divorced 20 October 1961 in Winston County, Alabama from Edward Carl Matthews (born Edward Carl May)7
Married December 1961 to Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley5
Married ca. 1969 to Earl Tilton Johnson5
Died 7 September 1997 in Sun City, Hillsborough County, Florida2, 6, 8
Buried in Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Arlington County, Virginia8

Biography

The following biographical sketch is compiled from both published and family sources.1, 5

Harriet was born in Newark, New Jersey, the youngest of four children of Nira and Harriet (Leonard) Truland. As a child, Harriet was an avid swimmer, and she used to swim in fishing ponds. Her mother told her not to swim in a fishing hole because it was dangerous, but Harriet did it anyway. One day, diving into the murky water, she cut her knee on an old broken milk bottle. She left a bloody footprint all the way home, in the house on the hardwood floors, and up the stairs. She wrapped her knee in the only bandage she could find. When her mother discovered her, her mother didn’t know whether to kill Harriet or laugh when she saw her youngest child had wrapped her bloody knee with a sanitary pad! As a result of her injury, Harriet walked with a brace on her leg for years.

Family lore suggests that during her childhood, Harriet swam with her older brother John and his friend Johnny Weissmuller, Olympic champion (1924 and 1928) and actor (Tarzan and other roles). The friendship seems improbably given their age differences; Weissmuller (1904-1984) was 15 years older than John, and another three years older than Harriet. Harriet was said to have gone to the Olympic trials (year unknown) but was disqualified when it was learned that she had been paid to teach children how to swim. Perhaps she met Weissmuller at an Olympic trial. He was known to have attended the women’s 1928 Olympic tryouts that were held at Rockaway Playland Pool, New York.

Harriet attended several schools, including Barringer High School, in Newark, eventually graduating in 1940 from Verona High School. She married her high school sweetheart, Arthur J. Anderson. When Arthur joined the Navy early in World War II, Harriet entered college and also did her part to support the war effort by working in an ammunition plant. The work was described as like the cartoon where a person tests bullets on a conveyor belt by hitting them with a hammer. Her job was so dangerous that she was the only one working in a small testing room.

After Arthur was killed in action in the War, Harriet wanted to join the Navy, but the doctor took one look at her knee brace and said she couldn’t join. She decided to come back and try to enlist in the Marine Corps, having removed her brace. A different doctor that day had her jump on one leg and then the other, and she said if he had her jump one more time on her injured leg she would have fallen flat on her face. But her enlistment was approved, and she became a Marine.

In the years following, with successive marriages to George Gottschling, Edward May, and Frank Medley, Harriet lived in various places, including her native New Jersey, Alabama, Colorado, and eventually Florida, where she settled with her last husband, Earl Tilden Johnson. Her last job was executive secretary with a western food chain (her boss was killed in a plane crash). In retirement, Harriet enjoyed square dancing, tap, Hawaiian and aerobic dancing, and was on the local synchronized swim team.

While in the Marine Corps, Harriet befriended Lieutenant General Carol Mutter, the first woman in the Marine Corps to be promoted to the ranks of both major general and lieutenant general. Years later, General Mutter honored Harriet’s memory by conducting her funeral at Arlington National Cemetery.

Person/Family

Spouse 1FamilyArthur Junior Anderson (son of Arthur Oscar Anderson and Rothia May Porter)
Born 5 November 1921 in Kearny, Hudson County, New Jersey
Married February 1942 in Elkton, Maryland to Harriet Jane Truland
Died 11 September 1943 in Salerno Bay, Italy
  
Spouse 2FamilyGeorge Gottschling (son of Albert Gottschling and Dorothy _____)
Born 1 June 1921 in New Jersey
Married 1946 to Harriet Jane Truland
Died February 1987
  
Children of Harriet Jane Truland and George Gottschling:
  
+1.FamilyAnne Kathleen Medley (born Gottschling)
Born 8 May 1947 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey
Adopted(adopted by Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley)
Married to David Emil Nester
  
+2.FamilyGeorge William ‘Bill’ Medley (born Gottschling)
Born 3 May 1948 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey
Adopted(adopted by Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley)
Married 16 August 1969 to Doris Jo ‘Jodee’ Gazlay
Died 30 October 2018 in Maryland
  
Spouse 3FamilyEdward Carl Matthews (born Edward Carl May) (son of Edward C. May and Margaret Matthews)
Born 9 January 1936 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey
Married to Harriet Jane Truland
Died 11 September 2006 in Hiawassee, Towns County, Georgia
  
Children of Harriet Jane Truland and Edward Carl Matthews (born Edward Carl May):
  
+1.FamilyBonnie Anne Medley (born May)
Born 6 May 1957 in Newark, Essex County, New Jersey
Adopted(adopted by Francis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley)
Married 16 June 1979 to Steven K. Atkinson
  
Spouse 4FamilyFrancis Mertin ‘Frank’ Medley
Born 10 September 1923
Married December 1961 to Harriet Jane Truland
Died 5 February 1964
  
Spouse 5FamilyEarl Tilton Johnson
Born 4 June 1921
Married ca. 1969 to Harriet Jane Truland
  

Sources

  1. Women Marines Association, Volume 1, by Pamela Wood and Turner Publishing, 1992. Page 90, entry for Harriet (Truland) Anderson-Medley-Johnson. The entry provides brief vital and biographical information.
  2. Social Security Death Index (SSDI), Rootsweb (website). Johnson, Harriet T., no. 144-12-2981; born: 10 September 1922; died: 15 September 1997; last residence: Hillsborough [County], Florida.
  3. U.S. Federal Census, 1930, New Jersey, Passaic County, Clifton City, Enumeration District 16-91, Sheet No. 19B, family of Harriet Truland (39, New Jersey, widow); daughter Mary Truland (13, Pennsylvania); son John Truland (11, New Jersey); son Leonard Truland (9 7/12, New Jersey); daughter Harriet Truland (7 6/12, New Jersey).
  4. U.S. Federal Census, 1950, New Jersey, Essex County, Verona, E.D. 7-352, Sheet No. 5, George Gottschling, 29, New Jersey, salesman, auto parts, sales and service, retail automobile; wife Harriet J. Gottschling, 27, New Jersey; daughter Anne K. Gottschling, 2, New Jersey; son George W. Gottschling, 1, New Jersey; father Albert Gottschling, 76, Germany, Sep[erated], painter-paper hanger, interior decorator.
  5. Email from Bonnie Medley Atkinson to Lee Gazlay, various dates in November and December 2012.
  6. Email from Helen Anderson Rickard Glass to Lee Gazlay, various dates in March 2014, providing information about her brother Arthur J. Anderson, his wife Harriet, and other relatives.
  7. Google Groups, soc.adoption.adoptees; Post on 19 October 1996, Edward Carl May, bio-father; indicates that he divorced Harriet Anderson May on 20 October 1961 in Winston County, Alabama.
  8. Cemetery Record, Arlington National Cemetery (military website); Johnson, Harriet A., born: 10 September 1922; died: 7 September 1997; US Marine Corps; Court 4, Section MM, Column 4, Niche 2.